We use cookies on our website to give you the most relevant experience by remembering your preferences and repeat visits. Sherriff. The age of the Shirley Valentine character played by Pauline Collins was, Alderton lives in London with Collins, 70, who was awarded the OBE in 2001 and is. Adding to her secrets to a happy marriage, the star penned: "You need constant stimulus to keep a marriage alive. The couple starred together in Upstairs, Downstairs, both leaving the show in 1973. You can email the site owner to let them know you were blocked. Collins married actor John Alderton in 1969 and lives in Hampstead, London, with her Who was the butler in Upstairs Downstairs? 30 March 2012. Pauline Collins & John Alderton provide voices. The ending of the film, when Joe goes out to Greece to join her, suggests that they may be reconciled and that their marriage may be rekindled. //